arrow

the dance of routine and variety


Sometimes, we cling to routine. Other times, we chase variety.

Let routine and variety dance together.

Let them have their time in the spotlight — their solo, their moment to shine.

But ultimately, it is a partner dance.

A life of only routine is monotony. A life of only variety is wandering.

Routine — the quiet engine that powers your goals.

Variety — the spark that opens doors you didn’t know were there.

They fill in each other’s gaps, each bringing what the other lacks.

Together, they make a partnership worth watching.

And if you notice one partner leading too often, try switching it up.

A switch can be simple. If you’re like me — wake up, brush teeth, coffee, write — maybe one day, you skip the solo script and meet a friend for coffee instead. If you're more on the variety side, try on a 5 minute meditation or gratitude journal for a week.

And when you do, ask yourself: what is variety teaching me about routine? What is routine teaching me about variety?

When you let them dance together, they create a choreography all their own -- part rhythm, part surprise.

image


May 23, 2025

8:59AM

Alameda, CA